Happy New Year!
It’s January 18th today and saying HNY! at this point in the year already feels old. But I guess one can get away with it if it’s the first time you’re encountering someone in the new year which in this case, the visitors of this blog.
The new year is usually a time for fresh starts; reviewing the previous year for any mishaps and shortcomings, setting new goals or resolutions (for those who still call them that) and designing a plan on how to best accomplish them. It’s akin to a second chance – only, time doesn’t stop. But if you disregard the time element, it is a perfect chance to redo the previous year – an opportunity to go at the goals again with renewed fervor and strength.
I felt guilty all of 2022 that this blog which is supposed to be my baby was for lack of a better word, abandoned. At some point, I got scared that WordPress would shut it down without my knowledge due to inactivity that I took up browsing on it and reading old articles – just to show the WordPress police (if there’s anything as such) that there was still some traffic on the site however little. How did get to this point, you may ask?
Well, little life update: I started a Master’s Degree in Information Technology and boy did I underestimate what it takes to complete an advanced degree. I always thought the hardest degree to obtain would be a Bachelor’s degree and I can’t even tell you how wrong that assumption was.
For starters, nobody cares whether or not you are working full time. I mean, I worked full time while completing my undergrad as well but the jobs were more physically tasking than they were mentally. So imagine working a job that’s mentally exhausting for over 40hrs a week and doing a graduate program that requires between 8 to 9 hrs of study a week. A typical assignment per course is a minimum of 6 pages which should be original work i.e no plagiarism (strictly enforced) and referencing all of your work. Then, there is a group research per course which requires you to coordinate times with other adults who are busy as well and whom depending, may or may not be as committed as you are – so now you have to chase after them to complete the project as it usually carries a huge chunk of the course grade. Speaking of grades, only As and Bs are allowed in graduate school, anything other results in academic discipline or worse, expulsion – who knew? Definitely not me.
So on-top of juggling this master’s program, I’ve been employed full time and working as a graduate research assistant too which I’ve been super grateful for as it helps with my tuition. Completing this degree and everything that has come with it so far has been the single most arduous thing I’ve ever set out to do. And so it is that I could barely find not only the time to write on here but neither the inspiration because all I wanted to do in my free time was be as far away from my lap top as possible.
That’s not to say I didn’t write at all. For the first time, I completed two short stories and entered them into writing contests. I may not make any shortlist but just completing them and even submitting were milestones I could only dream about. My graduate program has afforded me other writing avenues through the paper(s) I wrote about the research I’m working on. One of those papers was published in a prestigious computer conference and I also got a chance to present at that conference although virtually. I can finally call myself a writer! 🙂
I’m back now ( cracking myself up at this) and although I’m in my second / final year of graduate school which will be even tougher, I like to think I’ve gotten a hang of it or have a flow to it. So I can ‘safely‘ get back to the blog – operating word is safely. i.e make time for it so work – which brings me income and school – where grades need to be maintained do not suffer.
I do have a lot I want to share this year – from my online dating adventures, to the nightmarish matchmaking some friends engaged in, school groups from hell, crushing on my professors, struggling with classes, difficult family situations, mental health, the royal family (yes, I can’t pass up a fab opportunity for content) and a ton more.
How was your 2022? Was it all that you hoped for? Did you have any resolutions and if so, did you meet them? Do you have any for 2023? As always, I’m more than grateful for the few of you who follow my blog and take the time to read and even react to the post. It means so much to me and I do not take it for granted. Thank you again for stopping by and here’s to hoping that 2023 is our best year yet.
XOXO, Tiramisu!